Sunday, October 16, 2011
Getting Back Into The Groove
Thursday, October 6, 2011
Maybe a Coincidence...But Probably Not...
Brayten decided a while back that if anyone had a discussion with him about the Church he would give them a Book of Mormon. He told me last night, "You know Steph, giving out Books of Mormon hasn't been hard at all for me. It has even been easier here than it was on my mission." We both made a few observations in an effort to explain this: 1) So many people come to him curious about his behavior and happiness. They are all working at a construction site where, let's be honest here, the stalwart are generally not found. They see that something is different about Brayten and they want to know what it is all about. 2) Brayten has grown up (I know, I know he still has a ways to go) but he isn't concerned about what others think of him, especially in regards to his religion. 3) He has found confidence as he has given out Books of Mormon and received such a positive reception. These co-workers are appreciative of the book and are actually excited to read it. 4) The image of the Church has not necessarily changed over the last decade, but rather, it has grown. Most of the people he talks to have heard of Mormons but once they find out Brayten is a Mormon they ask, "So, how many wives do you have?" The Church is definitely known-but there are some amazing misconceptions about it.
About a month ago one of Brayten's friends from his job site had an incredible loss in his family. He had an eleven year old son who was so happy, a little boy full of spunk, life, and curiosity. He loved making everyone around him smile and laugh. This little boy had found his Dad's unloaded shot gun, he then found some shells, and accidentally fatally shot himself.
What is worse still is that two years ago this same man lost another son. One of his twins who was two years old at the time. This little boy was being babysat by his sister and her fiance. The fiance physically abused the boy and as a result he ended up passing away.
This family has lost two sons in two years.
When Brayten was at the funeral for the eleven year old boy his friend said to him, "I am just so angry. I am so angry at God." Brayten at the time didn't feel like it was the right moment to talk to Selso about the gospel. But as he watched Selso walk away, a man heavy in sorrow, one of their other friends said to Brayten, "You have to talk to him. You know. We (pointing to himself and the other men around him) don't know anything. You know. Talk to him."
Brayten later found a time to talk to Selso. He gave him a Book of Mormon, he talked to him about eternal families and the plan of salvation, he told him he knew that his boys were okay and that he would be with them again. He also told him that he couldn't imagine what he was going through or how immense his heart ache must be and he hoped to never know how he was feeling but God knows and he loves you.
As of a couple of weeks ago Brayten had given away nine Books of Mormon. Six of those nine were to men who live in Childress, Texas a small city about four hours away from Guymon. Selso and his family live in Childress. Brayten found the phone number for the mission home in Texas that includes Childress. He was talking to the secretary about how he had given out some Books of Mormon and was wondering if there were missionaries in that area who could visit these families.
"Well, yes," she said, "In fact, we have two elders serving in Childress right now. They are Elder Shaffer and Elder Harrison."
"Did you say Elder Harrison?" Brayten asked.
"Yes," she replied.
"Is Elder Harrison from Bountiful, Utah?" he asked.
"Let me check. Yes he is, Ben Harrison, from Bountiful, Utah," she replied and then gave Brayten the Elder's phone number.
Brayten hung up the phone with a smile on his face. Ben Harrison was in our Ward back in Utah. He is an amazing, smart, talented, and kind young man. He also comes from a family who has had an abundance of sorrow. Ben's Dad struggled with pancreatic cancer for several years and ultimately lost the fight with it almost five years ago.
Brayten quickly dialed in Ben's number. "Hello, this is Elder Harrison," Ben said.
"Hi Elder Harrison," Brayten replied.
"Hi, how can I help you?" Ben asked.
"This is Brayten McGee," Brayten said.
"What?!?" Ben replied.
It was a joyful reunion by phone. Ben actually was performing service at the time doing some sanding, "Something," he said, "I actually know how to do." (His Dad had been a wood worker).
Brayten later called Ben's mom. "Hi Lisa this is Brayten McGee," he said.
"Hi Brayten," she replied.
"I've been talking to your boy," Brayten said.
"My Ben?" Lisa said.
They talked for some time and both concluded that who better to teach the gospel to Selso and his family than Ben, someone who knows what loss feels like and through the embrace with the gospel has found peace and comfort knowing that his Dad is up there and he will see him again. Who better than Ben, someone who knows Brayten and is good friends with Brayten, can teach all of Brayten's friends, who have received a Book of Mormon from Brayten's hands, the gospel.
Maybe it is all just a coincidence...but probably not. It still amazes me to see that even with the whole world to look after God still is present in individual lives, in each of our lives.
Sunday, September 11, 2011
9/11
I remember ten years ago. Brayten had already gone to work at Salt Lake Cable and Harness. I was alone in our small North Salt Lake Apartment. I was assembling cables, a small side job I did with Brayten to help pay for college. I sat on the tan colored carpet, listening only to the sound of my own breathing, with yellow, purple, red, and black cables before me all organized in rows.
Brayten called me, without saying, "Hi babe," or even, "Hello." He said, "Steph, turn on the radio." At the time we didn't have a television and this seemed like a funny request.
"Why? What's up?" I asked.
"Just turn it on," he said.
I did. Then I sat cross legged on the floor and listened as the world came tumbling down.
Brayten came home shortly thereafter. We clung to each other for a moment and then headed to my parent's house to watch as the calamity of history took place. I was young. I recall that this was the first time I ever realized that there are people in this world who hate Americans. The reasoning for this hatred was confounded. I wanted a direct answer, "They hate us because..." But I wasn't getting that. I couldn't fathom this. I had never really hated anyone in my life so it was hard for me to understand.
I remember being glued to the tv, all day. I remember the vivid images, the moments in time that are now etched in my memory. I remember my civil engineer Dad saying over and over again, "Those towers can't collapse. They won't collapse. They're constructed to not collapse." And then they did. I remember my two year old nephew being nervous about airplanes for years after 9/11. I remember feeling so sick, so sad.
Ten years have now passed. I've grown up a lot, I'm, unfortunately, not quite as naive as I used to be. I've brought two beautiful children into this crazy, mixed up, muddled up world. A world that sometimes seems too awful for sweet babies to come into. A world that sometimes scares me and at times I fear for my kids being in it. But in the words of Mr. Frank (Anne Frank's father), "We must have children, and raise them to be fine people. That is how the world can be changed."
So we move forward with faith, we accomplish hard things, and take one step at a time into the unknown future.
I'm grateful for my family, I'm grateful for my religion, I'm grateful for all of my blessings, and I'm grateful for this amazing nation in which we live. I'm grateful for all of those throughout our history who have fought for freedom, been in harms way for freedom, and died for freedom. I wonder what the next ten years will bring. Hopefully a bit more good in the world...hopefully a bit more peace...hopefully a bit more love because Heaven knows we could use it.
I love you all, until next time.
Sunday, September 4, 2011
Welcome
I get the shivers just thinking about it. In fact, I was agitated to the extreme for the rest of that day. So what did we do. We finished cleaning, mopped really well, and then coated the apartment with spider spray. That cute little entry closet, yeah, it has about two cups of dried spider spray on its floor. Die, vermin!
Well I hope you enjoyed a tour of our house and an introduction to our cohabitants. I know, you wish you were me right now! We love you all! Have a great week!
Sunday, August 28, 2011
I Can't Believe Fall Is Almost Here...The Count Down to Christmas Begins!
It is interesting this town is about fifty percent Hispanic. We have felt like we have been emersed in Spanish culture. It has been a good experience, there are some excellent little Mexican food joints here and there. One thing that we see all the time are the suped up vehicles that a lot of Hispanics drive. Tommy will see these cars and...HE...LOVES...THEM! Racing stripes, bright colors, low riders, even flames...awesome! If he sees these cars as we are traveling about he freaks out, "Mom, look at that car, that's so cool!"
"It sure is," I respond while I'm thinking, "Oh Heaven help us."
Currently he has fallen in love, thankfully, with a more mild car. This car happens to be at our apartment complex so he gets to google at it everyday. As we drove by it last week he said, "Mom, that car is even cooler than Grandpa's car." I beg to differ...however, Dad, here is your competition, an old, dented, blue Camaro, I know you want one, forget that sweet Mustang.
Maddie is growing up more and more. Lately she likes to jabber and jabber and jabber. (I think she learned this from her cousin Gavin). We have complete conversations together, I'm just not really sure what they are about. I took this video the other day, I actually had to sneak it, because whenever she sees the camera she just wants to see pictures rather than actually perform for me. So the quality and angle, not great, but this is what it is like most mornings. She has lots to say.
Brayten is doing well. Their project is beginning to slow down for a few months so we are hoping that we will see him a little more often. At the same time we are a bit anxious and unsure if his company will move us anytime soon. They may choose to move us at anytime. It could be right away. It could be around December. Or it could be at the end of this project which would probably be next August. So we'll see what happens.
In the meantime though he is keeping himself busy and even doing a bit of missionary work. He might be keeping himself too busy though...he is losing his hair. The other day he decided enough was enough and took out the razor.
As for me, I am doing well. Keeping busy. I have found as long as I am so busy that I don't have too many spare moments it is better for me. The other day I was driving home from dropping Tommy off at school and a bit of home sickness snuck up on me. Ugh. I'm a baby. I think it has been a month, one single month, since the last time I was with my family and friends in Utah and already I have these pangs in my heart. So I have learned stay busy, busy, busy, and think about home relatively sparingly. Oh and start the count down to Christmas, I already can't wait. I love you guys and miss you...try not to make me cry this week. Have a good one!
Sunday, August 21, 2011
Back To School
We also spent some quality time on the trampoline. Tommy has now figured out how to do a front flip, I suppose he just wants to be like his cousins, so thanks for that one Logan and Cole. I have a slight cringe every time he tries a new trick, isn't he too young for this? Anyway, I just hope next week I don't have pictures of him getting his first cast.
I want to give a shout out to all of my nephews and neices heading back to school this week (unfortunately, I mean fortunately, for you Kaden and Karson you have already been enjoying the delights of a wholesome education for quite some time) but to the rest of you, good luck, work hard, get good grades, read, read, and read some more. I love you guys!
Sunday, August 14, 2011
The Blog Sabbatical Has Finally Ceased
So where have the McGee's been over the past month? Oregon, Utah...and now back to paradise...oh, I mean Guymon, Oklahoma.
On July 8th, I set out with two kids in tow. (Unfortunately Brayten had to work...or maybe he was just challenging my mothering skills, I'm still not sure). We drove four and a half hours to Oklahoma City and spent the night at a Holiday Inn Express (which by the way is a hotel, yep that's an "H" not an "M"). Can I just tell you, when you pull up to a hotel, with a trunk full of luggage and two small kids you really need to calculate your mode of action. How can I get me, my children, and all of these bags from point "A" to point "B"? Well, first you tote the kids inside to check in. Once the room key is in hand you then tote the children back to the car along with a luggage cart. You fill up the luggage cart, while ensuring the children do not run out into traffic, then put the children on top of the luggage...and off you go. I must tell you though that once you actually get to your room you may need to take a well needed break, lay back on the bed for at least a few seconds, and wipe the sweat from your brow.
The next day we boarded a plane. We flew two hours to Minnesota, had a two hour lay over, and then boarded another plane flying for four and a half hours to Portland, Oregon. I must confess, just the thought of this travel day had given me anxiety for a week before we actually left. As such, I was like Super Mom, traveling through the airports equipped with blankets, binkies, bottles, bandaids, toys, books, Ipod's bursting with kids movies from the Wiggles all the way to Snow Buddies, and snacks lots and lots of snacks. But we survived, Heaven be thanked the "devil" didn't join us on this trip, Maddie actually slept the whole flight from Minnesota to Oregon, can I hear a HALLELUJAH please!
We joined the rest of the Wilding crew in gorgeous, stunning, and absolutely freezing Oregon. You'd think I had been living in 110 degree weather for the past two months I was so cold! Alas, a week in Oregon was a blast! I'll give you a high point and a low point of the trip to save you from what would be an infinitely long travel log (because let's face it, can I ever just write a few words about anything, nope, blah blah blah blah blah...that's what I'm all about, I think I can write almost as much as my cute little sister can talk (I love you Shannon!)).
High Point: Beer Batter Halibut...oh my land, Tom, how have you not shared that amazing recipe you have until now. It was like Heaven on my tongue and I am generally not a fried foods person but wow. AWESOME!
Low Point: It was always great to see which one was going to be more terrible in a restaurant, Maddie or Preston. I think they took turns at extreme naughtiness. "Yep that's my kid," I sighed to myself over and over again. But on occassion I would be laughing because, "Oh good, it's not my kid this time I guess it's Preston's turn. Whew!" In hindsight however, this low point is now becoming quite a fond memory. In fact, one day in Oregon my kids and I, Russ, Meg, and Preston, and Grandma and Grandpa Wilding were having lunch together. My mom was talking about how she wanted to take the whole family to a nice dinner to celebrate my Dad's birthday. As she is going on and on about this great idea for a great dinner I am thinking, "Please spare me." Ultimately toward the end of that magnificent lunch my mom said, "Um, I think maybe we should just cook dinner tonight and not go out." But what she was really thinking was, "We better keep these gremlins home...for two or three more years." It was a good day.
I'm pretty much a hottie...this is post breast augmentation.



